Hey, fellow 30-something ladies!

Are you ready to embrace your thirties like the boss babes you are?  Whether you’re already knocking on 35’s door or just dipping your toes into this exciting decade, there are certain things that can add a sprinkle of fun, wisdom, and, let’s be real, a dash of fabulousness to your journey.  So, grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and let’s dive into the top 35 things every woman should know, do, or have before the big 3-5.

1. Own Your Signature Scent: Find that one perfume that makes you feel unstoppable. It’s like your secret weapon in a bottle!

2. Invest in Quality Skincare: Because taking care of your skin is the ultimate act of self-love. Hello, glowy goddess!

3. Learn to Say No: Your time and energy are precious, darling. Say yes to what lights you up and politely decline what doesn’t.

4. Get Your Passport: Whether it’s a romantic getaway with your special man, a bachelorette party with your favorite girls, or a family cruise having your passport is handy so you never have to wait to take that next trip.

5. Master a Killer Cocktail: Impress your friends (or yourself) with your mixology skills. Cheers to being fabulous!

6. Start on Your Passion Project: Whether it’s selling handmade crafts, freelance writing, or a side hustle, explore your passions outside of your 9 to 5.

7. Find Your Perfect Lipstick Shade: Every woman needs that one lipstick shade that makes her feel like she can conquer the world. Find yours and wear it proudly.

8. Learn a New Language: Because being bilingual is not only practical, but oh-so-sexy and leaves the door open to meeting cultured new people. Plus, you’ll be all ready when you use your passport!

9. Invest in Good Bras and Underwear: Your girls deserve the best support and so do you!

10. Have a Signature Dish: Impress your guests (or just yourself) with your culinary prowess. Bon appétit!

11. Declutter Your Space: Out with the old, in with the fabulous. Create a space that sparks joy and reflects your amazingness.

12. Dance Like Nobody’s Watching: Let go of inhibitions and dance like nobody’s watching. Bonus points for impromptu kitchen dance parties!  Take lessons with a partner or even by yourself.

13. Embrace Your Inner Child: Jump in puddles, build a blanket fort, or indulge in some coloring therapy. Age is just a number, darling.

14. Invest in Self-Defense Classes: Because being strong and empowered is always in style.

15. Create a Vision Board: Manifest your dreams and watch them come to life. You’re the artist of your own destiny. Set your goals and make them happen.

16. Learn to DIY: From fixing a leaky faucet to assembling IKEA furniture, channel your inner handywoman.

17. Find Your Go-To Workout: Whether it’s yoga, kickboxing, tennis, or salsa dancing, find a workout or sport that makes you feel alive and gets your body moving.

18. Master the Art of Talking: Networking doesn’t have to be scary. Embrace your charm and dazzle everyone you meet.

19. Invest in Timeless Fashion Pieces: Build a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and fabulous, no matter the occasion. Every woman needs some basic staples like a little black dress, a formal suit for court, a funeral outfit, and a good pair of shoes or boots for every occasion.

20. Start a Savings Account: Because financial independence is the ultimate boss move. If you can even work on getting out of debt, even better!

21. Read More: Feed your mind with books that inspire, challenge, and transport you to new worlds.

22. Volunteer for a Cause You’re Passionate About: Make a difference in your community and leave a positive impact on the world.

23. Practice Gratitude Daily: Count your blessings and watch your life transform into a beautiful masterpiece.

24. Learn to Fix Your Own Car: Who says girls can’t be gearheads? Especially when we have YouTube, right?! Empower yourself with some basic car maintenance skills, even if it’s just changing your tires, oil, or spark plugs.

25. Invest in Quality Bedding: Because a good night’s sleep is non-negotiable. Silk sheets? Egyptian cotton? Down comforter? Try them all!

26. Learn to Let Go of Toxic Relationships: Surround yourself with people who lift you higher and let go of those who drag you down.  Whether it’s a friend, boyfriend, or family member, say “bye Felicia” to anyone who no longer serves you or respects your boundaries.

27. Travel Somewhere Solo: Push your boundaries and discover the incredible freedom of solo travel.  Discover the world on your terms. Bonus points for getting lost and finding yourself in the process.

28. Start a Journal: Document your thoughts, dreams, and adventures. Your story is worth telling.

29. Splurge on a Luxurious Spa Day: Pamper yourself like the queen you are. You deserve it! Or better yet, include a little extra allowance in your budget each month to do your nails, touch up your highlights, get a massage, or go on a small shopping splurge.

30. Find Your Signature Hairstyle: Whether it’s sleek and sophisticated or wild and free, find a hairstyle or two that screams “YOU.”  Don’t forget to think about day time and night time looks.

31. Invest in a Good Mattress: Because beauty sleep is not a myth, darling.  Get to know your sleep style and whether you prefer a firm or soft mattress. Even think about investing in an adjustable bed for optimal comfort.

32. Learn to Meditate: Quiet the noise, find inner peace, and reconnect with your true essence. This could be simply taking a few minutes to relax in silence, pray and hear from God, or listen to serene and calming music.

33. Start a Retirement Fund: It’s never too early to plan for your fabulous future.

34. Take Risks: Embrace uncertainty and step outside of your comfort zone. That’s where the magic happens. Of course, calculated risks are probably best, but sometimes doing it scared can lead you to some amazing new places. Remember, no risk, no reward.

35. Love Yourself Unapologetically: You are imperfectly perfect, beautifully flawed, and absolutely extraordinary. Own it, embrace it, and never apologize for being you. Love yourself the way you hope others will love you and then they will!

Cheers to 35 (or more) year and the fabulous journey that lies ahead, darling!  Here’s to turning 35 and beyond with grace, style, and a whole lot of sass. You’ve got this!

Happy birthday and XOXO,

-LS

PS – Don’t forget to celebrate every milestone, big or small, because each one is a glittering gem in the crown of your amazing journey. And if you don’t have some or all of the things on this list done before 35, don’t sweat it! There’s still time, but also, don’t feel obligated or compare yourself to anyone else. This is merely a guide of suggestions. But the most important thing is to get out there, live your life to the fullest, and do the things that make you happy, no matter your age!