Level 38: Complete

Level 38: Complete

by | Jun 26, 2024 | Seasons + Celebrations

As I stand at the threshold of my 39th birthday, I can’t help but reflect on the whirlwind that was my 38th year. It’s been a journey marked by growth, transformation, challenges, and new beginnings, each moment adding to the chaos and beauty of my life. Here’s a recap of the highlights and lessons from my past year:

Living Alone for the First Time

One of the most significant changes of this past year was living in my home alone for the first time (ever!). Although my marriage ended quite some time beforehand, less than a month before my 38th birthday last year was when my now ex-husband officially moved out. Going from never having lived alone before in my 38 years to then finding myself all by myself with just the furballs was both daunting and liberating. I learned to love my own company, to revel in the silence, conquer some fears and home maintenance mishaps, and to take pride in making a home that reflects my personality. My home is now on its way to becoming my very own personal space, a sanctuary where I can recharge, dream, grow, and live happily ever after (hopefully).

Divorce Finalized

My divorce was finalized this year, bringing an end to a very, very long chapter of my life. It was a bittersweet milestone, but one that has paved the way for new opportunities and personal growth. Through the process, I discovered my strength and resilience, realizing that endings can also be beautiful new beginnings and you can’t open a new door until the old one closes.

First Trip to the Beach

I finally took a vacation from work and went on my first trip as an adult to the beach. It was everything I hoped it would be and more. The sun, the sand, the sound of the waves – it was a sensory delight. Plus fishing in the ocean was so much fun! I felt a profound sense of peace and joy, reminding me of the importance of taking time to escape the everyday hustle and enjoy the simple pleasures in life with wonderful company.

Culinary Adventures

This year was also about expanding my culinary horizons. I tried a variety of new foods, each one an adventure for my taste buds. (I’ll share the detailed list of new foods I’ve tried later.) This exploration has made me appreciate the diversity of flavors and the joy of discovering something new. I’ve also found that my tastes have changed significantly in this last year and even small things that I never cared for before I’m really enjoying, like mustard and avocados.

Reconnecting with an Old Friend

One of the most unexpected joys of this year was reconnecting with an old friend. What started as just sliding into my DMs just to say hello and check in on how I was doing has blossomed into a long-distance relationship filled with excitement and hope. It’s a reminder that life has a way of bringing people back to us when we least expect it and renewing our faith in the possibility of a meaningful loving relationship.

Home Makeover

During this past year I really started to focus on making over my home, repainting and redecorating here and there. This project was not just about changing the physical space, but also about creating an environment that inspires and comforts me. Each brushstroke and décor choice is a step toward making my house a true home with my own personal tastes and decor that pleases only me.

Astros Game

Going to an Astros game was another highlight of my year. The energy, the excitement, and the camaraderie of the fans made it an unforgettable experience. It was a reminder of the joy that comes from being part of something bigger, of sharing moments of triumph and defeat with others. Plus, it was $1 hot dog night and those weenies were amazing!

First Comedy Show

I went to my first comedy show and had an amazing time! I had the thrill of sitting in the front row and even got to do a meet-and-greet with the comedian. He took a picture with us and gave us his autograph, making the night even more memorable. I laughed so hard and enjoyed every moment. The show was in January though, and right after it ended, a cold front blew in. The weather went from pleasant and actually rather warm for the wintertime (even in Texas) to freezing and incredibly windy within a couple of hours. Despite the sudden blistering wind chill, the experience was totally worth it, even while we walked to Casino El Camino, a downtown Austin restaurant, where we had the best burger I’ve ever tasted. That was another first for me and it was absolutely delish!

Starting My Blog

This year, I also took a leap of faith and started this blog. Sharing my experiences, thoughts, and tips has been incredibly rewarding. It’s been a platform for me to connect with a community of amazing women, to offer support, and to receive it in return. Writing has become a therapeutic outlet for me and the positive feedback from my readers (you!) has been overwhelming. This blog has allowed me to document my journey, celebrate my achievements, and reflect on my growth. I also love that it will serve as sort of a written scrapbook of memories, experiences, and my thoughts that I can look back on at any time in the future.

First Music Festival

One of the most exhilarating experiences this year was attending my first music festival. The atmosphere was electric, with the energy of the bands and the crowd creating an unforgettable ambiance. Dancing and singing along under the open sky, discovering new favorite artists, and sharing the experience with new friends was a joyous celebration of life and country music. It reminded me of the power of music to bring people together and create lasting memories. In addition, this trip was the first time I’d been away in an RV and that in itself was another incredible adventure! My first RV shower went surprisingly well.

Improving My Overactive Bladder

This year has also brought significant improvements to my overactive bladder, a condition I’ve struggled with for over 11 years. For the first time, I managed to make progress without relying on medication. It’s been a journey of patience and persistence, and I’m incredibly grateful for the healing that has taken place in my body. While I’m nowhere near completely healed, the improvements have given me hope and a new sense of control over my health and have given me the confidence to slowly start having some normalcy in my life again. Having the right medical team that listens, advocates, and provides alternative solutions has been life changing. Without them, most of the experiences I’ve enjoyed over this last year would have never happened.

Discovering Helpful New Gadgets

On a lighter note, I’ve also discovered some funny yet incredibly helpful new gadgets this year. The toilet foot stool, bidet, and water flosser have also been welcomed additions to my daily routine. Though they aren’t new inventions, they are new to me, and I can’t imagine life without them now. These simple tools have improved my comfort and hygiene, proving that even the smallest changes can have a big impact.

Reflections and Gratitude

As I close the chapter on my 38th year, I’m filled with gratitude for the experiences that have shaped me. Each moment, each challenge, and each triumph has contributed to the person I am today. I’ve learned to embrace change, to find joy in the little things, and to be open to new possibilities.

Embracing Change

Living alone taught me the value of independence and self-reliance. It pushed me out of my comfort zone and made me more confident in my ability to handle life’s ups and downs without the leader as I’d been used to. I’ve embraced solitude as an opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth.

Finding Joy in the Little Things

Whether it was savoring a new dish, feeling the sand between my toes, or seeing my home transform with a fresh coat of paint, I’ve learned to appreciate the little moments that make life special. These small joys have a way of adding up, creating a rich tapestry of experiences.

Being Open to New Possibilities

Reconnecting with the Chef and starting a new relationship was a testament to being open to new possibilities. It wasn’t something I planned (at all!), but it turned out to be one of the most fulfilling parts of my year. Life has a way of surprising us when we remain open and receptive to what it has to offer.

Looking Ahead

As I step into my 39th year, I carry with me the lessons, blessings, and memories of the past year. I’m excited about what the future holds, knowing that I have the strength, resilience, and openness to face whatever comes my way. Here’s to new adventures, continued growth, and finding joy in the journey.

Thank you for being a part of my journey so far and for allowing me to share these moments with you. Here’s to completing Level 38 and looking forward to the adventures that await in Level 39!

With love and gratitude for another year around the sun,

-LS

Birthday Gift and Experience Ideas for the Women in Your Life

Birthday Gift and Experience Ideas for the Women in Your Life

by | Jun 19, 2024 | Seasons + Celebrations

Hey birthday babes!

Last month, we chatted about some of the best birthday gift ideas for the men in our lives—whether they’re husbands, boyfriends, or special friends. This time, it’s all about us! Whether you’re looking for the perfect gift for a friend, sister, or even some inspiration to give your hubby for your own birthday wishlist, I’ve got you covered. Here’s a mix of thoughtful, stylish, and fun gift ideas, both actual gifts that can be wrapped and gifts that are experiences, to make any woman feel special.

Thoughtful Gifts She Can Unwrap

  1. Perfume: A classic yet personal gift. Choose a scent that matches her personality—whether it’s floral, woody, or citrusy. Also take the time of year into consideration and whether you want to get her something for everyday daytime wear or something more sultry and romantic for evening wear.
  2. Handbags: A stylish handbag can elevate any outfit. Opt for a versatile piece that she can use daily or a chic clutch for special occasions. Take the brands she prefers into consideration and see what styles and colors are trendy for the upcoming season.
  3. Watches: A timeless and sophisticated accessory for women of any age. Look for elegant designs or smartwatches if she’s tech-savvy.
  4. Jewelry: Earrings, necklaces, or bracelets are all great ideas. Be sure to check in her collection or with a friend or sister to see which metal color and stones she prefers.  Personalized jewelry, such as pieces with her initials or birthstone, adds an even more special touch.
  5. Skincare Set: High-quality skincare products or a luxury brand she’s been eyeing are thoughtful ideas. Think serums, masks, and moisturizers so she can really pamper herself.
  6. Books: A good read is always a great gift. Choose a bestseller, a book by her favorite author, or a beautiful coffee table book.
  7. Candles: Scented candles that help her relax and unwind, or stylish candles that look great with her home’s decor, are another wonderful idea. Look for ones made with natural ingredients and delightful fragrances. If she has allergies though, you may want to skip this option.
  8. Fitness Gear: Stylish workout clothes, a new yoga mat, or home gym equipment if she’s into fitness are super helpful and every girl loves an excuse to have another yoga pant in their collection!
  9. Subscription Box: From beauty products to gourmet snacks, there are subscription boxes for every interest and this can be a treat that shows you really know her likes.
  10. Tech Gadgets: Wireless earbuds, a new phone case, or a smart home device are excellent choices for savy girlies.
  11. Cookware: Opt for high-quality cookware or a unique kitchen gadget or appliance for the foodie in your life.
  12. Stationery: Consider beautiful notebooks, planners, or personalized stationery for the organized and creative minds in your life.
  13. Home Decor: Stylish decor items like vases, photo frames, or throw pillows that go with her interior decor and match her tastes are all thoughtful items, especially for artsy ladies.
  14. Luxurious Bathrobe: A plush, comfy bathrobe for those cozy nights at home is always a great option. You can even try one of those robes that also is a fuzzy blanket.
  15. Art Supplies: If she’s creative, consider high-quality art supplies, a DIY craft kit, or a new piece of art.

Memorable Gifts She Can Experience

  1. Spa Day: Treat her to a relaxing day at the spa. Massages, facials, and pampering treatments will make her feel luxurious and pampered.
  2. Concert Tickets: Find out when her favorite band or artist is playing in your area and get tickets to a live concert.
  3. Concert Experience: Take her to see her favorite band or artist play live, but in a new city and turn a concert into a whole trip full of many new experiences. Take her to restaurants, pubs, and local spots while in the new city.
  4. Weekend Getaway: Book a charming B&B or a luxury hotel for a romantic weekend escape.
  5. Cooking Class: Enroll her in a cooking class to learn a new cuisine or perfect her favorite dishes. This is also great to do with a partner so maybe think about accompanying her or asking one of her girlfriends if she’s free to join in.
  6. Wine Tasting: A fun and sophisticated experience if your lady is into wines. Visit a local vineyard or book a wine tasting tour.
  7. Adventure Experience: For the thrill-seeker, consider activities like skydiving, hot air ballooning, a helicopter ride, or a zip-lining adventure.
  8. Art Workshop: Sign her up for a painting, pottery, or photography class. Some local shops even offer fun “sip and paint” classes that are fun to do together or with a group of friends.
  9. Fitness Retreat: A yoga retreat, wellness weekend, or fitness boot camp could be the perfect getaway, especially for a busy mom who needs some time to get back to herself or nature.
  10. Theater Tickets: A night out at the theater to see a play, musical, or ballet is something you may not enjoy, but she sure will. If it’s not something you’re into, grab an energy drink to stay awake and maybe some earplugs or earbuds to listen to the game (JUST KIDDING!!).
  11. Personalized Tour: Hire a guide for a private tour of her favorite city or a new place she’s been wanting to explore.
  12. Fun Membership: A yearly membership to one of her interests is a great idea. Consider things like her favorite museum, gallery, theme park or water park, a gym, nail salon, or massage parlor.
  13. Boat Cruise: A romantic dinner cruise or a daytime sightseeing boat trip are great for the water lovers.
  14. Dance Lessons: Whether it’s salsa, ballroom, or hip-hop, dance classes can be a fun and exciting gift. Even if she has two left feet and doesn’t come out being ready for Dancing with the Stars, the experience is sure to be fun and memorable for her.

I hope this list gives you plenty of inspiration for celebrating the amazing women in your life. The best gifts come from the heart and show that you’ve put thought into making her day special. If these gifts are for you, I hope you’ve gotten plenty of ideas to give your husband or boyfriend.

As always, with love and best birthday wishes,

-LS

Birthday Gift and Experience Ideas for the Men in Your Life

Birthday Gift and Experience Ideas for the Men in Your Life

by | May 15, 2024 | Seasons + Celebrations

Hi there, gift-giving girlies!

Have you ever asked yourself what to get your husband/boyfriend/dad/brother for his birthday?  I know I have.  It’s not about being the perfect wife, girlfriend, etc and buying the perfect gift.  It’s about giving the special man in your life something so special and seeing the excitement on their face when they unwrap it or learn that they’re going to do something exciting with you.  It’s so special to give something to our men that will truly make them happy, especially after all they do for us.  As we celebrate these special guys, whether it’s a significant other, father, brother, or son, finding the perfect birthday gift can be a delightful yet challenging task.  Striking the balance between practicality and sentimentality, while still being something manly and wanted, let’s explore a variety of gift ideas tailored to suit the diverse tastes and interests for the men in our lives.  And hey, these gifts might be perfect for Father’s Day or other holidays as well, not just birthdays!

I’ve broken this list into two sections; one for tangible gifts and one for gifts that are actually experiences.  So whether your hubby, boyfriend, dad, or brother like to unwrap something or prefer to have an adventure on their special day, here are some ideas that will captivate all kinds of different interests.

Thoughtful Gifts He Can Unwrap

1. Classy Timepieces:

A sophisticated watch not only adds a touch of elegance, but also serves as a timeless and classic accessory.  Depending on your budgets and his tastes in jewelry, you can consider brands like Rolex, Seiko, Citizen, or Fossil for quality craftsmanship.  Be sure to take into account his likes, colors he typically wears, and practicality (whether for everyday wear or special dressed up occasions).  In addition to a watch, I also recently got my special someone a beautiful wooden case with a glass top that stores and displays all his watches.

2. Signature Cologne:

Pick up a bottle of his favorite go-to cologne or if he’s comfortable experimenting, enhance his charm with a brand new signature scent that complements his personality and style.  Opt for popular fragrances from brands like YSL, Versace, Ralph Lauren, or Dior.  Make sure it’s something that you feel he’ll like, but also something that will please your sniffer as well since you’ll be smelling it, too.

3. Quality Knives Set:

For the culinary enthusiast or chef in your life, a set of high-quality kitchen knives can elevate his cooking experience.  Look for renowned brands like Wusthof, Shun, or Zwilling for durable and precise blades.  Or for a more personalized and truly unique experience, check out a local forgery and have a knife custom made just for your special man and even opt to include his initials for an even more personalized experience.

4. Personalized Leather Wallet:

Add a personal touch with a monogrammed leather wallet, combining practicality with style.  Be sure to take his preferences like front pocket or back pocket and bi-fold or tri-fold in mind when picking out the perfect design.  Explore online retailers like Etsy for customizable options.

5. Gourmet Food Basket:

If your special someone is a foodie, indulge his taste buds with a curated selection of gourmet treats, including artisanal cheeses, fine wines, and gourmet chocolates.

6. Tech Gadgets:

From wireless headphones and Bluetooth speakers to smart home devices and watches, technology enthusiasts will appreciate the latest gadgets to enhance their daily routines.  Check out retailers like Best Buy for the best brands, overall value, or latest and greatest features.

7. Customized Photo Album:

Compile cherished memories into a beautifully designed photo album or scrapbook, capturing the moments you’ve shared together that he can proudly display at his business or home office.  Even just a single picture of the two in a unique or special frame can be a sentimental gift that he’ll enjoy and can adorn his desk for years to come.

8. Stylish Executive Accessories:

Elevate his professional wardrobe with a sleek and functional leather briefcase or messenger bag.  The best part is these accessories are not only great for work, but can be perfect for travel as well.  And if your man is someone who travels for work more often than the average person, another great idea might be to invest in a matching set of luggage, toiletry accessories, and travel briefcase so he arrives at each new destination in style.  Check out brands like Samsonite or Coach, or even look for great finds on Amazon.

9. Outdoor Grilling Set:

For the barbecue aficionado, a full grilling set complete with tools, spices, sauces, and accessories will enhance his outdoor cooking experience.  Or better yet, a brand new pit might be an excellent option if it’s something he’s been looking at and is within your budget.

10. Craft Beer or Whiskey Tasting Set:

Treat him to a tasting experience with a curated selection of craft beers or premium whiskeys, allowing him to explore new flavors and aromas.  And on the plus side for you, local breweries and wineries are wonderful venues for romantic date nights!

11. Fitness Tracker or Smartwatch:

Help him stay active and organized with a fitness tracker or smartwatch that monitors his daily activities, workouts, and notifications on the go.  Be sure to get one that’s compatible with his cellphone whether he’s an iPhone or Android user.

12. Luxurious Tie or Pocket Square:

Upgrade his wardrobe with a luxurious silk tie or pocket square in a classic or contemporary design, adding a touch of sophistication to his ensemble.  This is a great option for someone with exquisite taste who dresses well frequently for work purposes.

13. EDC Item Collector:

Keep his essentials (AKA “every day carry” or “EDC” items) organized and easily accessible, as well as declutter your home all in one with a sleek organizer designed for keys, pocket knives, watches, and more. Keep your countertops or bedside tables free from miscellaneous things being left about after work each day and also help to streamline his daily routine with this stylish and practical gift.  Some organizers can even contain chargers for cellphones and smart watches.

14. Personalized Leather Journal:

Encourage his creativity with a beautifully crafted leather journal, customized with his initials or a meaningful message.  Whether he enjoys writing, sketching, or jotting down thoughts for personal or work reminders, this timeless gift will inspire him to document his journey and aspirations.

Memorable Gifts He Can Experience

1. Concert Tickets:

Treat him to an unforgettable night out with tickets to see his favorite band or artist live in concert.  Check websites like Ticketmaster or StubHub for upcoming events, or visit the direct websites of some of his favorite artists for tour dates in your area.

2. Exotic Car Rental:

Fulfill his automotive dreams with an exhilarating drive in a luxury sports car.  Rent a Lamborghini, Ferrari, or Porsche for a day of adrenaline-fueled adventure.

3. Racetrack Experience:

For the adrenaline junkie, gift him a thrilling day at the racetrack where he can test his driving skills behind the wheel of a high-performance race car.  Some tracks have bring-your-own-car experiences, while others allow you drive actual sports cars, with or without professional drivers.  Check out your local oval or street tracks to explore your options.

4. Weekend Getaway:

Plan a romantic weekend getaway to his favorite destination, whether it’s a cozy cabin in the mountains or a beachfront resort by the sea.  Take this opportunity to reconnect and create lasting memories together (with or without the kids…no judgment either way!).

5. Outdoor Adventure:

Embark on an outdoor adventure such as hiking, camping, or fishing, allowing him to unwind and reconnect with nature.  Go as a family or if he needs some relaxing alone time away, partner with his buddies so they can join in on a guys only weekend.

6. Sports Game Tickets:

Surprise him with tickets to see his favorite sports team play live, whether it’s football, baseball, soccer, or boxing.  Share in the excitement of cheering on the home team from the stands.

7. Hot Air Balloon Ride:

For the thrill seeker in your life, give him with a breathtaking hot air balloon ride, offering panoramic views of picturesque landscapes and a truly unforgettable experience.

8. Gourmet Cooking Class:

Sharpen his culinary skills with a gourmet cooking class led by professional chefs, where he can learn new techniques and recipes to impress family and friends.  Whether he’s into Italian or Mexican, there’s sure to be a class around you local area that he can participate in.

9. Wine Tasting Tour:

Book a wine tasting tour through scenic vineyards and wineries, indulging in the finest wines and culinary delights along the way.  Again, this is another opportunity for a romantic date idea that the two of you can actually enjoy together.

10. Private Yacht Charter:

Charter a private yacht for a romantic day on the water, complete with gourmet dining, snorkeling, and sunset views for a luxurious and intimate experience.

11. VIP Upgrade:

Upgrade his game day or concert with VIP tickets, access to exclusive lounges, and meet-and-greet opportunities with athletes or artists for an unforgettable sporting or musical event experience.

12. Helicopter Tour:

Take to the skies with a thrilling helicopter tour of iconic landmarks and breathtaking scenery, offering a unique perspective and lasting memories.  Book a tour of your home town or the nearest larger city for even more beautiful views.

13. Skydiving Adventure:

Lift his birthday celebration to new heights with a thrilling skydiving experience. Tandem jump from thousands of feet above the ground, feeling the rush of adrenaline as you freefall through the sky before safely parachuting back to earth.  It’s an exhilarating adventure that the adventure junkie in your life will never forget.

14. Storm Chasing Expedition:

For the adventurous soul who seeks excitement and adrenaline, embark on a thrilling storm chasing expedition.  Join experienced meteorologists and chase epic storms across breathtaking landscapes, witnessing the awe-inspiring power of nature up close.  From dramatic lightning displays to swirling tornadoes, it’s a once-in-a-lifetime adventure that promises unforgettable memories.

By considering his interests, hobbies, and preferences, you can select a thoughtful gift or plan an unforgettable experience that celebrates his uniqueness, pleases his soul, and even strengthens your bond as a couple.  Whether it’s a tangible gift or an amazing adventure, the most important aspect is the thought and effort you put into making his birthday truly special.

With much love and birthday wishes,

-LS

35 Things Every Woman Should Know, Do, or Have Before Turning 35

35 Things Every Woman Should Know, Do, or Have Before Turning 35

by | Apr 10, 2024 | Fabulous + Flawed, Seasons + Celebrations

Hey, fellow 30-something ladies!

Are you ready to embrace your thirties like the boss babes you are?  Whether you’re already knocking on 35’s door or just dipping your toes into this exciting decade, there are certain things that can add a sprinkle of fun, wisdom, and, let’s be real, a dash of fabulousness to your journey.  So, grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and let’s dive into the top 35 things every woman should know, do, or have before the big 3-5.

1. Own Your Signature Scent: Find that one perfume that makes you feel unstoppable. It’s like your secret weapon in a bottle!

2. Invest in Quality Skincare: Because taking care of your skin is the ultimate act of self-love. Hello, glowy goddess!

3. Learn to Say No: Your time and energy are precious, darling. Say yes to what lights you up and politely decline what doesn’t.

4. Get Your Passport: Whether it’s a romantic getaway with your special man, a bachelorette party with your favorite girls, or a family cruise having your passport is handy so you never have to wait to take that next trip.

5. Master a Killer Cocktail: Impress your friends (or yourself) with your mixology skills. Cheers to being fabulous!

6. Start on Your Passion Project: Whether it’s selling handmade crafts, freelance writing, or a side hustle, explore your passions outside of your 9 to 5.

7. Find Your Perfect Lipstick Shade: Every woman needs that one lipstick shade that makes her feel like she can conquer the world. Find yours and wear it proudly.

8. Learn a New Language: Because being bilingual is not only practical, but oh-so-sexy and leaves the door open to meeting cultured new people. Plus, you’ll be all ready when you use your passport!

9. Invest in Good Bras and Underwear: Your girls deserve the best support and so do you!

10. Have a Signature Dish: Impress your guests (or just yourself) with your culinary prowess. Bon appétit!

11. Declutter Your Space: Out with the old, in with the fabulous. Create a space that sparks joy and reflects your amazingness.

12. Dance Like Nobody’s Watching: Let go of inhibitions and dance like nobody’s watching. Bonus points for impromptu kitchen dance parties!  Take lessons with a partner or even by yourself.

13. Embrace Your Inner Child: Jump in puddles, build a blanket fort, or indulge in some coloring therapy. Age is just a number, darling.

14. Invest in Self-Defense Classes: Because being strong and empowered is always in style.

15. Create a Vision Board: Manifest your dreams and watch them come to life. You’re the artist of your own destiny. Set your goals and make them happen.

16. Learn to DIY: From fixing a leaky faucet to assembling IKEA furniture, channel your inner handywoman.

17. Find Your Go-To Workout: Whether it’s yoga, kickboxing, tennis, or salsa dancing, find a workout or sport that makes you feel alive and gets your body moving.

18. Master the Art of Talking: Networking doesn’t have to be scary. Embrace your charm and dazzle everyone you meet.

19. Invest in Timeless Fashion Pieces: Build a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and fabulous, no matter the occasion. Every woman needs some basic staples like a little black dress, a formal suit for court, a funeral outfit, and a good pair of shoes or boots for every occasion.

20. Start a Savings Account: Because financial independence is the ultimate boss move. If you can even work on getting out of debt, even better!

21. Read More: Feed your mind with books that inspire, challenge, and transport you to new worlds.

22. Volunteer for a Cause You’re Passionate About: Make a difference in your community and leave a positive impact on the world.

23. Practice Gratitude Daily: Count your blessings and watch your life transform into a beautiful masterpiece.

24. Learn to Fix Your Own Car: Who says girls can’t be gearheads? Especially when we have YouTube, right?! Empower yourself with some basic car maintenance skills, even if it’s just changing your tires, oil, or spark plugs.

25. Invest in Quality Bedding: Because a good night’s sleep is non-negotiable. Silk sheets? Egyptian cotton? Down comforter? Try them all!

26. Learn to Let Go of Toxic Relationships: Surround yourself with people who lift you higher and let go of those who drag you down.  Whether it’s a friend, boyfriend, or family member, say “bye Felicia” to anyone who no longer serves you or respects your boundaries.

27. Travel Somewhere Solo: Push your boundaries and discover the incredible freedom of solo travel.  Discover the world on your terms. Bonus points for getting lost and finding yourself in the process.

28. Start a Journal: Document your thoughts, dreams, and adventures. Your story is worth telling.

29. Splurge on a Luxurious Spa Day: Pamper yourself like the queen you are. You deserve it! Or better yet, include a little extra allowance in your budget each month to do your nails, touch up your highlights, get a massage, or go on a small shopping splurge.

30. Find Your Signature Hairstyle: Whether it’s sleek and sophisticated or wild and free, find a hairstyle or two that screams “YOU.”  Don’t forget to think about day time and night time looks.

31. Invest in a Good Mattress: Because beauty sleep is not a myth, darling.  Get to know your sleep style and whether you prefer a firm or soft mattress. Even think about investing in an adjustable bed for optimal comfort.

32. Learn to Meditate: Quiet the noise, find inner peace, and reconnect with your true essence. This could be simply taking a few minutes to relax in silence, pray and hear from God, or listen to serene and calming music.

33. Start a Retirement Fund: It’s never too early to plan for your fabulous future.

34. Take Risks: Embrace uncertainty and step outside of your comfort zone. That’s where the magic happens. Of course, calculated risks are probably best, but sometimes doing it scared can lead you to some amazing new places. Remember, no risk, no reward.

35. Love Yourself Unapologetically: You are imperfectly perfect, beautifully flawed, and absolutely extraordinary. Own it, embrace it, and never apologize for being you. Love yourself the way you hope others will love you and then they will!

Cheers to 35 (or more) year and the fabulous journey that lies ahead, darling!  Here’s to turning 35 and beyond with grace, style, and a whole lot of sass. You’ve got this!

Happy birthday and XOXO,

-LS

PS – Don’t forget to celebrate every milestone, big or small, because each one is a glittering gem in the crown of your amazing journey. And if you don’t have some or all of the things on this list done before 35, don’t sweat it! There’s still time, but also, don’t feel obligated or compare yourself to anyone else. This is merely a guide of suggestions. But the most important thing is to get out there, live your life to the fullest, and do the things that make you happy, no matter your age!