by Lindsay | May 22, 2024 | Travel
Hey beach beauties,
I’m beyond thrilled to share that I’m about to go on my first real vacation as an adult! After years of dreaming about sandy shores and ocean breezes, it’s finally happening. In just a few short weeks, I’ll be heading to the beach and staying in a surprisingly affordable vacation rental condo right on the Gulf. Talk about convenience. We’ll be just a few steps from laying in the sand, tanning, swimming, and maybe even some sea fishing anytime we want. Excited doesn’t begin to describe how I feel!
Having said that, I tend to be an overthinker, overplanner, and overpacker. I love being extra prepared, trying to anticipate everything we might need in any situation ahead of time. Plus, since I haven’t been on a vacation in a while, I’m a little out of practice on planning and packing everything we’ll need for a beach trip. We’ll be driving to our beach destination which means space will be limited in the vehicle and I want to keep myself from bringing everything but the kitchen sink. So I’ve put together this packing list to help ensure I have all the essentials without going too overboard and wanted to share these beach vacation packing tips with you as well.
Beach Bag Essentials
1. The Beach Bag: First and foremost, you’ll want a durable and possibly large bag to carry all your essentials to the beach. One that’s water resistant and easy to rinse off is an added bonus.
2. Sunscreen: This is a no-brainer, but it’s worth mentioning. Choose a broad-spectrum SPF 30 or higher and make sure you have one that’s safe for the whole family to use. Also don’t forget to pack a lip balm with SPF, too!
3. Towels: Large, absorbent beach towels are a must, especially for little ones who might get chilly quickly. Consider quick-dry towels if you’re short on packing space, so they can be reused if making multiple, frequent trips to the water.
4. Beach Hat: A wide-brimmed hat to protect your face and scalp from the sun is a great idea.
5. Sunglasses: Polarized lenses that protect against UVA and UVB rays are best to shield your eyes and reduce glare from the water.
6. Beach Cover-Up: Something light and airy that you can easily slip on over your swimsuit or shorts and a tank if that’s more your style.
Clothing
1. Swimsuits: At least two or more, depending on how long your trip is and how much time you’ll spend swimming. That way you always have a clean, dry one ready to go.
2. Casual Day Outfits: Light, breathable fabrics are your best friend. Think sundresses, shorts, tank tops, and t-shirts.
3. Evening Wear: Depending on your other non-beach plans, remember a couple of nicer outfits for dinners or evenings out. A maxi dress or a chic jumpsuit can be both comfortable, cool, and stylish.
4. Pajamas: Opt for items that are lightweight and comfortable!
5. Undergarments: Don’t forget enough for the duration of your trip and always, always take extras.
6. Activewear: If you plan on staying on your fitness routine while on vacation with morning jogs on the beach or yoga, pack a couple of workout outfits.
7. Footwear:
- Flip-Flops/Sandals: Comfortable and easy to slip on and off. Also easy to dump sand out of and rinse off before heading home.
- Casual/Athletic Shoes: Comfortable walking shoes or sneakers for exploring, hiking, or exercising.
- Dressy Shoes: Something nicer for dinners and evenings out.
8. Extras: Just in case you don’t have laundry facilities, make sure to bring extras of everything (not just undies).
Personal Care Items
1. Toiletries: Face wash, body wash, loofah, razor, toothbrush, toothpaste, moisturizer, and cotton swabs. Consider travel-sized bottles to save space. Don’t forget feminine products that are beach appropriate, just in case.
2. Moisturizer: In addition to sunscreen, lotions, after-sun moisturizers, and aloe vera gel to soothe your skin are great ideas.
3. Hair Care: A wide-tooth comb, hair ties and clips, shampoo, conditioner, leave-in conditioner to combat tangles and dryness, and styling products. Sea salt spray is a great product to help enhance those perfect air dried beachy waves.
4. Makeup: For water days, I like to keep my face minimal and bronzy, but with an emphasis on sun protection. My suggestions would be waterproof mascara, tinted moisturizer with SPF, and a lip tint or balm (also with SPF). Maybe bring a small eyeshadow or blush palette as well for dinners or evenings out.
5. Medication: Don’t forget any prescription medications for each family member, plus a basic first aid kit with band-aids, antiseptic wipes, anti-itch ointments, antacids, and pain relievers for all age groups in your family.
Miscellaneous Must-Haves
1. Reusable Water Bottle: Stay hydrated throughout the day, especially in the sun and when in hotter climates than you’re used to.
2. Snacks: Healthy options like nuts, dried fruit, and granola bars and things that won’t melt in the sun all day are a plus.
3. Books/Kindle: Perfect for relaxing on the beach or unwinding before bed.
4. Portable Charger: Keep your devices charged for photos and emergency calls.
5. Laptop: If you’re someone who works on the go, make sure to have your laptop, mouse, and any other necessary accessories.
6. Beach Blanket: For lounging comfortably on the sand.
7. Beach Chairs and Canopy or Umbrella: For comfort and shade on the beach. Try to find options that are easy to assemble/put up, lightweight, and compact.
8. Cooler: To keep drinks and snacks cool during your beach days.
9. Entertainment: Playing cards, beach games, or a frisbee for both beach entertainment and for use at the house or condo before and after outings.
10. Waterproof Phone Case: Protect your phone from water damage with a waterproof case, which might also help protect it from sand. You may opt to leave your phone at “home” for the day, but they’re always nice to have for capturing photos of those memorable vacation moments with your family.
11. Fishing Gear: If you’re planning to fish, make sure you have all the necessary equipment.
12. Food and Drinks: Plan for meals in addition to your snacks. Think easy-to-pack options like sandwiches, fruit, and chips.
13. Bluetooth Speaker: For some beach tunes or for use at the condo or hotel.
14. Board Games/Card Games: Fun for the evenings or rainy days.
15. Emergency kit: If you’re planning to drive to your destination, make sure you have tools to change a tire, jumper cables, and a flashlight, just in case.
Pro Packing Tips
1. Create a Checklist: Mark off items as you pack them to ensure nothing is forgotten. Whether you’re a pen and paper or a phone app kind of gal, make sure you have a list you can use for both packing to depart and for returning home. I’ve created a free printable list you’re welcome to use to help get you started with the basics.
2. Roll Your Clothes: This will save space and minimize wrinkles.
3. Packing Cubes: Keep your suitcase organized and make it easier to find items.
4. Ziplock Baggies: Great for keeping wet clothes separate or protecting electronics from sand and water.
I hope this list helps you feel as prepared as possible for your next beach vacation without going over the deep end and bringing your entire household. But worst case scenario, remember that if you forget something, your vacation spot likely has grocery stores, convenience stores, pharmacies, and other local shops to pick up whatever you need. So don’t stress and try to enjoy the sun, surf, and sand – you deserve it. If you have any additional must-pack items or tips, feel free to share them in the comments with me too!
With love and safe travel wishes,
-LS
by Lindsay | Apr 24, 2024 | Travel
Planning a vacation can be both exhilarating and a little stressful if not organized and executed properly, especially with a busy lifestyle filled with work, family, and social commitments. Whether you’re dreaming of a weekend getaway with your husband in your home state, or a cross-country or international adventure with the whole family, having a well-thought-out plan is key to ensuring a stress-free and enjoyable trip. Here’s a little guide to help you plan your next vacation to help make sure nothing gets overlooked.
Step 1: Pick Your Location
Timeline: Up to 6-12 months in advance
1. Interest and Preferences: Consider what type of vacation you want. Are you looking for relaxation on a beach, an adventure in the mountains, cultural immersion in a foreign city, or a mix of everything?
2. Research: Look into different destinations that match your interests. Read travel blogs, watch vlogs, visit travel guru social media pages, and check out travel guides for inspiration.
3. Budget: Determine how much you’re willing/able to spend. Some destinations may be more budget-friendly than others and maybe you’ll want to put off longer getaways or trips abroad until it makes sense with your current budget.
4. Documentation: Make sure you have passports and other travel documents in place or apply for them during this time period if planning an international location, that way your plans don’t get held up waiting for things to arrive.
Step 2: Choose Your Dates
Timeline: Up to 6-9 months in advance
1. Seasonality: Consider the best time to visit your chosen destination. Look into weather patterns, peak tourist seasons, and any local events or festivals in your destination that might enhance or hinder your plans during your specific desired timeframe.
2. Work and School Schedules: Check your work calendar and any school schedules if you have kids. I like to plan vacations around holidays and long weekends when possible to maximize time off.
3. Flexibility: If possible, be flexible with your dates to take advantage of better rates on flights and accommodations during off-peak days or months.
Step 3: Schedule Time Off
Timeline: Up to 3-6 months in advance
1. Request Time Off: Submit your vacation request to your employer well in advance. Ensure you have enough vacation days saved up for the duration of your trip. It’s also helpful to plan for an extra day off before and after to help with last minute packing and then unwinding before heading back to the office.
2. Plan Around Commitments: Make sure you’re not missing any important work deadlines, family events, or social commitments.
Step 4: Book Flights and Accommodations
Timeline: Up to 3-6 months in advance
1. Flights: Use flight comparison websites to find the best deals. Set price alerts to get notified of any price drops.
2. Accommodations: Research hotels, vacation rentals, and alternative accommodations like hostels or bed-and-breakfasts. Read reviews and check locations to ensure they fit your needs, are clean, and are convenient with your plans.
Step 5: Plan the Itinerary
Timeline: Up to 2-3 months in advance
1. Must-See Sights: Make a list of attractions and activities you don’t want to miss. Prioritize them based on your interests and their popularity. Be sure to take into consideration all ages of the people in your group to make sure everyone can participate or plan for child care accordingly if you’re planning adult activities.
2. Day Trips: Research nearby places that could make for interesting day trips.
3. Meals: Look into local cuisine and popular restaurants. Make reservations if needed, especially for high-demand spots and during peak hours and seasons.
Step 6: Prepare and Start to Pack
Timeline: Up to 1-2 months in advance
1. Packing Checklist: Create a packing list tailored to your destination and activities. Consider the climate, length of stay, and any special events you’ll attend. Starting this list in advance ensures you’ll have plenty of time to pick up any items you might need for the trip so you’re not having to do that last minute the day before (been there, done that!).
– Essentials: Passport, ID, travel documents, money, credit cards, medications, and toiletries.
– Clothing: Pack versatile pieces that can be mixed and matched. Consider layers for varying weather conditions.
– Toiletries and Essentials: Don’t forget to get travel sizes of everything according to current guidelines if you’re traveling by air and pay even more particular attention to what you’re allowed to take on international flights.
– Gadgets: Don’t forget chargers, adapters, and any electronics you’ll need.
2. Luggage: Choose appropriate luggage based on your mode of transportation (car, plane, etc.) and the length of your trip.
Step 7: Take Care of Home and Pets (and children if they’re not accompanying you)
Timeline: Up to 1-2 months in advance
1. Pet Sitters: Arrange for someone to take care of your furballs and/or kids if they’re not joining you. This could be a friend, family member, or professional pet-sitting service.
2. Home Security: Ensure your home is secure while you’re away. Consider asking a neighbor to keep an eye on it, temporarily holding mail delivery, and setting up timers for lights. If you have home security cameras, make sure you’ll have access set up from your mobile devices or laptop.
Step 8: Final Preparations
Timeline: Up to 1 week in advance
1. Confirm Reservations: Double-check all your reservations, including flights, accommodations, and any activities or tours.
2. Emergency Contacts: Share your itinerary with a trusted friend or family member. Provide them with copies of your travel documents and emergency contacts.
3. Packing: Do a final pack and make sure you have all essentials. Check the weather forecast for your destination and adjust your packing list if needed.
Bonus Tips
– Travel Insurance: Consider purchasing travel insurance to cover unexpected events like cancellations, medical emergencies, or lost luggage and jewelry.
– Local Customs: Familiarize yourself with the local customs, language basics, and cultural norms of your destination.
– Health Precautions: Check if any vaccinations or health precautions are needed for your destination. Bring any necessary medications and a basic first-aid kit.
I hope this helps you to be well-prepared to plan out your next adventure, ensuring a smooth and enjoyable vacation.
As always, with love and well wishes for safe and happy travels,
-LS
by Lindsay | Mar 13, 2024 | Miscellaneous, Travel
Howdy y’all!
If you’d have told my almost 18-year-old New Yorker self that I’d be living in Texas for the next 21 years, I probably would’ve laughed and asked if you meant New Jersey. But here I am, exactly 21 years to the day later from when I moved to Texas and I’d like to share the things I’ve learned since living in the Lone Star State.
Cowboys Are Real, But Not Ubiquitous
First things first, not everyone in Texas is a cowboy. I mean, sure, you’ll see a fair share of hats and boots, but the entire state isn’t a scene out of an old Western movie. However, you will need a pair of broken-in boots. Trust me, they are essential for fitting in and surprisingly comfortable once you get used to them. I’ve also recently purchased my first straw hat that matches my boots. So although I don’t live in Fort Worth or attend the rodeo regularly, I think I might be an officially Texas cowgirl now.
Tumbleweeds and Roadrunners: Myths Debunked
Tumbleweeds do exist. They are not, however, constantly rolling down Main Street. You’ll spot them occasionally, especially when the wind kicks up in West Texas, but it’s not the wild, wild West all day, every day. And roadrunners? They’re real too, but they are not big, purple, or perpetually chased by coyotes. They’re small, quick little birds that you might miss if you’re not paying attention. In fact, I’d been seeing them for years running across the road and never even knew that’s what they were until I asked someone what they looked like.
The Truck, The Boots, and The Gun
Yes, you must own a truck. It’s like an unwritten rule. Whether you need to haul hay or just navigate the sometimes rough terrain, a truck is your best friend. Plus there are many places in Texas that a small little Honday like mine just can’t get to. Potholes in Texas are the size of, well, Texas. Along with the aforementioned requirement to own a good pair of broken in boots, you’ll also need a gun. And no, this doesn’t mean Texas is a dangerous place. It’s more about the culture of hunting, self-reliance, and being prepared.
(Disclaimer: This is meant to be taken in a humorous manner and I’m by no means suggesting for anyone to purchase or possess a firearm, especially if that’s not something you’re comfortable with or not legally able to obtain. I’m merely saying that it’s not uncommon in the culture of Texas to see them openly and frequently, which is much different than the culture in New York. Here, guns are more commonly acceptable to have by even the small town’s little grandma. As they said in the movie Miss Congeniality, “this is Texas; even my florist has a gun!”.)
The Language of Texas
“Y’all” and “reckon” are proper English here and I’ve even heard them in professional settings. It’s amazing how these words can make conversations more inclusive and friendly. I reckon I’ve picked up quite a bit of this charming Southern dialect over the years. And let’s not forget Spanglish. Yes, that’s a real language here. You’ll find yourself mixing English and Spanish in the same sentence without even realizing it. Phrases like “Estoy so tired” and “Vamos a la store” start to become second nature. It’s a beautiful blend that reflects the rich cultural tapestry of Texas and allows people of different dialects to more easily communicate and come together as one unified state.
Italian Food and Pizza
As a New Yorker, I hold a special place in my heart for Italian food and pizza. I hate to break it to you, but good Italian restaurants are few and far between in Texas. And pizza? Let’s just say, don’t set your expectations too high. I’ve had to become quite the home cook to satisfy my cravings or at least be willing to take a decent drive to a larger city to find a good “pie”. Oh and true story…the first time I asked a girl at a pizza joint here for a large “pie”, she was confused and replied “um, ma’am, we don’t serve pies here”. (SMH!)
Seasons: All or Nothing!
Typical seasons don’t exist in Texas. One day it’s summer, the next it’s winter. And sometimes, we get all four seasons in a single day. Dressing accordingly is an art form I’ve yet to master. Layering is your best friend and always have a pair of sunglasses, an umbrella, shorts, and a jacket in your bag or vehicle.
Check Your Boots
Always, and I mean always, check your boots before putting them on. You never know what could have crawled in there overnight, especially if you live in the country like I do. This is one piece of advice that I thank God I’ve never had to learn the hard way, but for others it only takes one surprise to make you a believer.
Texas is Huge
You can drive for 8 hours in almost any direction and STILL be in Texas. The sheer size of this state is mind-boggling. Weekend road trips can take you through deserts, forests, cities, and beaches, all without crossing the state line. In fact, you can fit New York states in the state of Texas.
Miscellaneous (and Humorous) Observations
Here are a few more quirky observations:
- Tex-Mex is its own food group. If you haven’t had enchiladas, birria, or breakfast tacos, you haven’t lived.
- Texans take college football very seriously. VERY SERIOUSLY. Choose your allegiance wisely.
- The phrase “bless your heart” can be both a compliment and a subtle insult. Context is key.
- Fire ants are tiny, but they are fierce. Respect them and always watch where you step.
- Barbecue is a sacred tradition. Each region in Texas has its own style and all are delicious. Try the brisket, ribs, and pulled pork in every city you visit. You can thank me later.
Living in Texas has been a wild ride full of laughs, lessons, and love. And hey, even some of my exes live in Texas! (haha) But in all seriousness, I’ve come to appreciate and adore the unique culture, the friendly people (generally speaking, of course), and the vast landscapes. While I’ll always be a New York in my core and you’ll still hear the accent come out every now and then, Texas has found a permanent place in my heart.
So, to my fellow ladies, whether you’re a Texan born and raised or a transplant like me, I hope you find joy in the quirks and charms of this incredible state. And remember, when in doubt, just smile, nod, and say “y’all”, and everything will be alright.
Bless your heart, get out and enjoy our great state!
-LS
