Hi there, lovely ladies!
As of this week, football season is officially back! In Texas in particular, it’s much more than just a pastime; it’s a way of life. Whether it’s Friday night lights at the local high school, Saturday college games, or Sunday and Monday night NFL, football is everywhere and seems like all everyone can talk about. At least until after the Super Bowl!
As someone who spent six years in the stands every Friday night, watching my daughter perform with the marching band and my former stepson play on the middle school, JV, and varsity teams, I can say that I’ve grown to enjoy football more than I ever thought I would. My mom loves football, as well as all the men in my family, so I’ve always grown up with games on. However, I remember it was always so boring back then. Now that I understand more, it’s much more of a thrill since I can participate and I even find myself cheering along. I’m lucky enough to live near many local universities so I’ve been able to experience multiple college games in person, but I can’t wait to go to an NFL game soon—something I never thought I’d be excited about!
Even if you’re not a die-hard fan, there are plenty of ways to get involved and have fun during this exciting time of year. If you’re a woman who might not know all the rules or the players by name, but has a partner who loves football, here are some ways to get involved to make the most of the season and have a great time with your loved ones!
1. Learn the Basics
Understanding the game can make watching football much more enjoyable. You don’t need to become an expert, but learning the basic rules can help you follow along and even get excited about the big plays. Start by asking your partner questions during casual conversations when the game isn’t on. Most men are happy to explain (or “mansplain” haha) because it’s something they’re passionate about and typically find enjoyment including you in something they love. Understanding terms like “first down,” “touchdown,” and “field goal” can make a huge difference. There are also plenty of beginner’s guides and videos online that break down the rules in an easy-to-understand way.
2. Attend a Game in Person
Watching the game on TV is definitely fun, but as with any sport, I find that there’s nothing like the energy of a live football game. If you’ve never been to one, consider attending a high school, college, or NFL game this season. Tailgating before the game is a Texas tradition and a fantastic way to enjoy good food, music, and camaraderie before kickoff. Even if football isn’t your thing, the atmosphere at the games is a blast and well worth it. It’s an experience you won’t forget.
3. Host a Game Day Gathering
Hosting a football watch party at home can be a great way to enjoy the game while still having fun with friends. You can BBQ, make fun and creative game-day snacks and appetizers, and set up a comfortable and inviting spot for everyone to watch the game together. If you’re not into watching, you can still socialize with the other wives who might feel the same way. Set up a “football-free” zone in another room where you can chat about more women- and mom-related topics of interest, enjoy drinks, or play games while still being part of the event.
4. Support Your Partner’s Team in Style
Even if you’re not passionate about football, you can still show support for your partner’s favorite team. Invest in some cute, team-branded apparel or accessories that you’ll enjoy wearing. Whether it’s a sparkly team shirt, a cozy hoodie, or even some fun jewelry in the team’s colors, dressing up can help you feel more involved and connected to the experience.
5. Make It a Date Night
Turn football into a bonding experience by making game day a special date night. If your husband doesn’t have plans to watch with the guys, make it a fun night that you two can share together. Order in from your favorite restaurant, make a cozy spot on the couch, and enjoy the game with each other, just as you would with your favorite show. You can even create little traditions, like making a special game-day dessert or competing to see who can predict the final score. Or choose to go out to a local sports bar to enjoy some appetizers and drinks together with your sweetie for a memorable and fun night out.
6. Join a Fantasy Football League
If you’re looking for a way to get even more involved, consider joining a fantasy football league. It’s a fun way to learn more about the game and you might find yourself getting surprisingly competitive. There are even women-only leagues if you prefer to compete in a more relaxed, supportive environment.
7. Get Involved in Community Events
Football season often brings community events like pep rallies, fundraisers, and parades. These events are a great way to meet people, support your local teams, and have a ton of fun enjoying the festive atmosphere. Whether it’s volunteering at a school event or just attending to show your support, getting involved can make football season more meaningful.
8. Make the Most of Halftime
If you’re at a live game, halftime is a great time to stretch your legs, grab some snacks, and enjoy the entertainment. High school games often feature performances by the marching band (which is the reason I started attending way back when), cheerleaders, and dance teams, which can be a lot of fun to watch. At home, halftime is the perfect time to refresh your drink, chat with friends, or even sneak in a quick cornhole or horseshoes game.
Football season in Texas is a unique experience, and whether you’re a fan or not, there are plenty of ways to get involved and have a blast during gametime. By joining in with the social aspects, learning a little about the game, and finding ways to make it your own, you might just find yourself looking forward to game days as much as your husband or boyfriend does!
Cheers and as always, much love!
-LS